Which One Are You?

I Have Seen Many statuses Saying Something Like This.

"Y'all Females Always Worried About Me. Y'all Better Check Your Man. Guess Where He Was Last Night? Right He Was With Me. Now Who Going To Check Me? #IllWait  

Let Me Start By Saying I Have Been A Side Chick, Main Chick & I've Been The "Best Friend". No I'm Not Proud At All But Imma Keep It 100 With Y'all. It's alot of people who have fell in one of these catorgies & won't talk about it. It Took Me A While To Get Myself Together. But I Finally Got It Together & Found My Worth. I no longer settle for non sense.


Let me speak on being a "Best Friend ". During the time I was a "best friend" I just wanted attention. Being that I wasn't happy with myself, I was happy that he was showing me attention. Yes I knew he had a girlfriend but I didn't think I would actually like him. We chilled almost everyday. His girlfriend would call && he would step out& talk to her. I use to get mad because he would pick up the phone . I wanted him to only talk to me && nobody else. But I had to understand that I was only the "best friend ".

During the time I was a "main chick" I was so happy. I was with this dude on and off from 8th grade until the beginning of 10th grade. Although I never really cut him off until after my first semester of college. He would go and talk to girls but at the end of the day he would always say "You Wifey" "You going to always be my main chick no matter who I talked to". Me not actually listening to what he was saying would still be happy because I was the "Main Chick"  meaning he will ALWAYS come back to me.

Listen, I know Olivia Pope  from Scandal has made it seem like side chicks are winning because she has now moved into the white house with Mr. President. Don't get me wrong I love Scandal, its actually my favorite show. People have to realize that scandal  is just a show. Being a side chick isnt cool. Side chicks aren't winning at all.

In the link below Toya (Lil wayne's babymother) gives her husband 8 "Hall passes" for him to cheat. CHILD. . . . . . I wish I would give MY HUSBAND 8 times to cheat he not even getting 1! So Since she is giving he 8 "Hallpasses" to cheat she is making herself the "Main Chick"
.http://madamenoire.com/597269/toya-gives-memphitz/


When You Know what You're Worth Than The Way You are Being Treated You Wont stand for it. Ladies, You deserve to be treated like a queen. Don't settle for being the #1 CHICK. Your Goal Should Be To Be his queen.
NEVER SETTLE FOR ANYTHING LESS THAN WHAT YOU DESERVE


My question is are you a side chick, main chick, or a queen?